VALUE- A must Read Story
A story tells that two friends were walking
through the desert. During some
point of the journey they had an argument, and
one friend slapped the other one in the face.
The one who got slapped was hurt,
but without saying anything, wrote in the sand:
TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.
They kept on walking until they found an oasis,
where they decided to take a bath. The one who
had been slapped got stuck in the mire and
started drowning, but the friend saved him.
After he recovered from the near
drowning, he wrote on a stone:
TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.
The friend who had slapped and
saved his best friend asked him,
"After I hurt you, you wrote in the
sand and now, you write on a stone,
why?" The other friend replied "When someone
hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds
of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone
does something good for us, we must engrave
it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."
LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND
AND T O CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them,
but then an entire life to forget them.
Send this phrase to the people you'll never
forget. It's a short message to let them
know that you'll never forget them.
- VALUE -
Do not value the THINGS you have in your life..
But value WHO you have in your life!
A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy’s father going and coming in the hall waiting for the doctor. Once seeing him, the dad yelled:
“Why did you take all this time to come? Don’t you know that my son’s life is in danger? Don’t you have the sense of responsibility?”
The doctor smiled and said:
“I am sorry, I wasn’t in the hospital and I came the fastest I could after receiving the call…… And now, I wish you’d calm down so that I can do my work”
“Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? If your own son dies now what will you do??” said the father angrily
The doctor smiled again and replied: “I will say what Job said in the Holy Book “From dust we came and to dust we return, blessed be the name of God”. Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go and intercede for your son, we will do our best by God’s grace”
“Giving advice when we’re not concerned is so easy” Murmured the father.
The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy,
“Thank goodness!, your son is saved!” And without waiting for the father’s reply he carried on his way running. “If you have any question, ask the nurse!!”
“Why is he so arrogant? He couldn’t wait some minutes so that I ask about my son’s state” Commented the father when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left.
The nurse answered, tears coming down her face: “His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we called him for your son’s surgery. And now that he saved your son’s life, he left running to finish his son’s burial.”
Moral:- NEVER JUDGE ANYONE BECAUSE You never know how their life is & what they’re going through, think abOUT this moment.
I was in an institute preparing for medical entrance. In our section I was the topper. She approached me and from the very first day of our talk she started showing that she has enough right on me. I was simultaneously surprised and happy too, as she was the first girl to talk to me with so much of affection. I stood silent for some time and my dream went on big. Some say Dream is a false story. But who ever integrates himself with the false dream, the world becomes heaven for him for a while. I did the same.
I felt like she was the one that I can trust love care and live with. She gave enough hints that she loves me, so one day I could not help Proposing her. She just smiled and diplomatically answered 'I like u'
After lots of stress and happiness one day she said 'I love you'. My dream even went bigger. We had many moments togather and world for us changed. We were just flying without thinking of fall.
The tragedy started now. She was smart, fair, cute and demanding. On the evening of our 1st medical Entrance she said me 'I have another lover, doing B.Tech. I loved him verymuch and he is my 1st love. But after you came I thought you will understand me better. He always stays busy and can't give me time. But I find the love in u'. I was shocked. It was a public place and I did not react, rather said 'it's okay for me but u have to break up with any one today'. As our exam was ahead I didnt react much. After exams she broke up with him and we were happy. Results came. I got MBBS, she did not.
We separated by distance but not by soul. But that year I came to know that she is keeping in touch with hes ex. I was shocked again. When I asked she said 'I want my first love back. He has changed' I gladly said go away, cut the phone and started crying like a baby. Then I thought, why should I compromise my first love when she doesnt. I decided to love her as much as I can.
Again my simplicity, cool personality and love for her changed her mind. Then she came back. Next year she got BDS and joined our college and our relation became stronger. That year her family didnt support her to prepare for MBBS another year. But she was nt satified with BDS. We decided we will make it possible any how.
Her hard work and my guidance helped her with a gud rank and she got MBBS. But the tragedy is that we again got separated by distance. Because she got MBBS in another college but I m confident that we will nt leave one another in our life.
My love for her got her back to me
Every Husband must Read This" ....Even wife can also...
Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).
Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.
Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you
Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.
Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.
Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.
Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.
Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.
Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.
Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.
Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.
Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.
Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay
Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass
Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new one anyway
Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both
Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) advised concerning the woman:
• Treat the women well.
• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives
6 perkara Allah sembunyikan
Allah SWT selesai menciptakan Jibrail as dengan bentuk yang cantik, dan
Allah menciptakan pula baginya 600 sayap yang panjang , sayap itu antara
timur dan barat (ada pendapat lain menyatakan124, 000 sayap). Setelah itu
Jibrail as memandang dirinya sendiri danberkata:
'Wahai Tuhanku, adakah engkau menciptakan makhluk yang lebih baik daripada aku?.'
Lalu Allah swt berfirman yang bermaksud.. 'Tidak'
Kemudian Jibrail as berdiri serta solat dua rakaat kerana syukur kepada Allah swt. dan tiap-tiap rakaat itu lamanya 20,000 tahun.
Setelah selesai Jibrail as solat, maka Allah SWT berfirman yang bermaksud. 'Wahai Jibrail, kamu telahmenyembah aku dengan ibadah yangbersungguh- sungguh, dan tidak ada seorang pun yang menyembah kepadaku seperti ibadat kamu, akan tetapi di akhir
zaman nanti akan datang seorang nabi yang mulia yang paling aku cintai, namanya Muhammad.' Dia mempunyai umat yang lemah dan sentiasa berdosa, sekiranya mereka itu mengerjakan solat dua rakaat yang hanya sebentar sahaja, dan mereka dalam keadaan lupa serta serba kurang, fikiran mereka melayang bermacam-macam dan dosa mereka pun besar juga. Maka demi kemuliaannKu dan ketinggianKu, sesungguhnya solat mereka itu aku lebih sukai dari solatmu itu. Kerana mereka mengerjakan solat atasperintahKu, sedangkan kamu mengerjakan solat bukan atas perintahKu.'
Kemudian Jibrail as berkata: 'Ya Tuhanku, apakah yang Engkau hadiahkan kepada mereka sebagai imbalan ibadat mereka?'
Lalu Allah berfirman yang bermak! sud. 'Ya Jibrail, akan Aku berikan syurga Ma'waa sebagai tempat tinggal...'
Kemudian Jibrail as meminta izin kepada Allah untuk melihat syurga Ma'waa.Setelah Jibrail as mendapat izin dari Allah SWT maka pergilah Jibrail as dengan mengembangkan sayapnya dan terbang, setiap dia mengembangkan dua sayapnya dia boleh menempuh jarak perjalanan 3000 tahun, terbanglah malaikat jibrail as selama 300 tahun sehingga ia merasa letih dan lemah dan akhirnya dia turun singgah berteduh di bawah bayangan sebuah pohon dan dia sujud kepada Allah SWT lalu ia berkata dalam sujud:
'Ya Tuhanku apakah sudah aku menempuh jarak perjalanan setengahnya, atau sepertiganya, atau seperempatnya? '
Kemudian Allah swt berfirman yang bermaksud. 'Wahai Jibrail, kalau kamu dapat terbang selama 3000 tahun dan meskipun aku memberikan kekuatan kepadamu seperti kekuatan yang engkau miliki, lalu kamu terbang seperti yangtelah kamu lakukan, nescaya kamu tidak akan sampai kepada sepersepuluh dari beberapa perpuluhan yang telah kuberikan kepada umat Muhammad terhadap imbalan solat dua rakaat yang mereka kerjakan.... .'
Marilah sama2 kita fikirkan dan berusaha lakukan... Sesungguhnya Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan enam perkara iaitu :
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan redha-Nya dalam taat.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan murka-Nya di dalam maksiat.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan nama-Nya yang Maha Agung di dalam Al-Quran.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan Lailatul Qadar di dalam bulan Ramadhan.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan solat yang paling utama di dalam solat (yang lima waktu).
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan (tarikh terjadinya) hari kiamat di dalam semua hari
PENSEL : Saya minta maaf.
PEMADAM : Untuk apa?Awak tak buat salah pun dengan saya.
PENSEL : Saya minta maaf disebabkan saya,awak cedera.Setiap kali saya buat silap,awak pasti berada disitu untuk membetulkan kesilapan saya.Tapi setiap kali awak memadamkan kesilapan saya,awak kehilangan sebahagiaan dari diri awak,awak menjadi semakin kecil.
PEMADAM : Takpe,saya langsung tidak kisah tentangnya kerana... saya dibuat untuk membetulkan kesilapan yang awak dah buat.Walaupun suatu hari nanti saya tahu bahawa saya pasti akan hilang,saya bangga dengan kerja saya ni.Jadi jangan la risau sebab saya benci tengok awak bersedih...>_<
Someone asked a AMO : Are you a Doctor?
AMO : No sir, im a Assistant Medical Officer..
Some : How much do you make?
AMO : "HOW MUCH DO I MAKE?" ... I can make holding your hand seem like the most important thing in the world when you're sca
red. ... I can make your child breathe when they stop. ... I can help your father survive a heart attack. ... I can make myself get up at odd hours off the night to make sure the community gets its treatment, medication and needs to live. ... I work all day to save the lives of strangers. ... I make my family wait for dinner until I know your family member is taken cared of. ... I make myself skip lunch so that I can make sure that everything I did for your family member today is charted. ... I make myself work weekends and holidays because people don't just get sick Monday thru Friday. ... Today, I might save your life. ...I standby at my residence after office hours to attend to any Ambulance calls / cases that might need my help.. Rain or shine I’m there to help strangers out…. How much do I make? All I know is, I make a difference.